Gender Identity & Sexual Orientation
Many people have questions about gender identity and sexual orientation. Learn more here about gender, what it means to be LGBTQ+, where to find resources in Chicago, and how you can be a supportive ally.
What does LGBTQ+ stand for?
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Questioning (or Queer). + recognizes there are even more ways for a person to identity than are included in this acronym.
Understanding Gender Identity, Gender Expression, & Sexual Orientation
There are many ways a person can identify. Gender is more than the parts that you were born with. Gender isn’t just male or female. And it can be expressed in different ways. Learn more about the aspects of gender identity.
The same can be said for sexual orientation. Whoever you’re attracted to physically, emotionally, or romantically can be more than gay or straight. Check out the LGBTQ+ Glossary for helpful information.
There Are Many Ways That a Person Can Identify
It is important to respect a person’s identity by using their preferred gender pronouns. Some people might prefer to be identified with masculine or feminine pronouns, such as “he, him, his,” or “she, her, hers.” Other people might prefer to be identified by terms that are more gender neutral such as “they, their, theirs.” Some people are okay with any pronouns as long as they are respectful. Unsure of someone’s pronouns? Politely ask them if they have a preference.
Watch a Youtube video about pronouns and how to use them (video).
Taking Care of Yourself
You matter, and it’s important to know how to take care of yourself. Being LGTBQ+ can have special challenges, but there are lots of people out there who support you and want to help. These links include local Chicago resources and other tools to help you.
Coming Out
Community Support
Transitioning Your Gender
Getting Help If You’re Having Trouble
Everyone deserves to be treated with respect—and in Illinois, the law protects LGBTQ+ people from discrimination, bullying, and abuse. If you aren’t being respected, or if someone is hurting you physically or emotionally, reach out for help. You are not alone.
Your Legal Rights
Bullying
Sexual Assault & Harassment
Homelessness
National Runaway Safeline or call 800-786-2929
Community Assistance for LGBTQ Homeless Youth (PDF)
Chicago Youth & TNGC Drop-in Programs (PDF)
Chicago Emergency Housing Options for Ages 12-24 (PDF)
Suicide
The Trevor Project or call 866-488-7386
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline or call 800-273-TALK (8255)
Be An Ally
An ally is someone who is supportive of others, respects everyone and stands up to bullies. This can be especially important for LGBTQ+ individuals. Not only do allies provide support to their LGBTQ+ peers, they also help others understand the importance of equality, fairness, acceptance and mutual respect for everyone.
Ways to Be An Ally